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Did Pornhub’s Surprising New Femboy Data Just Blow the Lid off MAGA’s Closet Problem?

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Holding up an uncomfortable mirror to a society in which LGBTQ+ people are under increased scrutiny and attack, it turns out that people of all genders and sexualities really love LGBTQ+-themed adult content, and that searches for such videos have risen across all parts of the site, according to Pornhub’s 2025 Year in Review. Among the winners: terms like “lesbian,” “transgender,” and “femboy.”


via: Queerty


While we’ve known for a long time that trans spicy content is a favorite of red states that oppose trans rights (make it make sense!) there’s another weird truth we have to confront about this year. Femboys have broken through the Pornhub top ten in global searches for the first time ever. In the gay-specific categories, “femboy” tops the list, possibly due to the Charlie Kirk shooting that made the term a household name for controversial reasons.


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We’re still a little bit fuzzy on suspect Tyler Robinson’s alleged reasoning for taking out the right wing pundit, but what we do know is that the speculation around Robinson’s motives this fall exposed many previously unsuspecting straights to the concept of the femboy, a male-identified person who presents in a feminine way, often—but not always—in a kinky context.


While some femboys’ presentation is part of their schtick—like Twitch streamer F1NN5TER—and others begin as femboys before eventually coming out as trans women, some femboys who are more closely aligned with the spicy industry use their femininity as a way to appeal to a broader base of fans, and that’s where things end up getting tricky.


As trans TikToker Sabre has explained on her page, femboys and alt-right extremists—such as Groypers, i.e. Nick Fuentes fans—unfortunately experienced some overlap in the early days of the internet, when there were limited spaces available for hanging out, sh*tposting, and testing out new identities that weren’t exactly welcome in the mainstream. Because lots of trans eggs hung out on these spaces—like 4chan and 8chan— they rubbed shoulders with people who, despite their horrible politics, formed the only kind of acceptance these vulnerable trans folks could access in the days before mainstream trans acceptance (and the backlash that followed.)


As Sabre and other TikTokers have also explained, there’s another reason that femboys and trans women are vulnerable to falling in with groypers. Fuentes fans and other MAGA offshoots are very upfront about their hatred of women. They’re also quite clear on how conflicted they feel about their attraction to the women they fear and despise. So seeking out men that have all the traits they find desirable in women feels like a loophole. They can experience attraction to the parts of femininity they like, without having to risk being shamed and rejected by women.



Both volcels (voluntarily celibate men) and incels (involuntarily celibate men, i.e. guys who can’t get laid) often express the desire to be queer not because they find men attractive, but because they feel the gap between men and women is too ideologically large. The groyper type of misogyny encourages young men to fear women while viewing them as baby-making machines—it completely despairs of ever having anything in common with the opposite sex. Which makes for a perfect storm of rising femboy searches among not only queer or bicurious men, but genuinely straight men who are seeking a get-out-of-heterosexuality-free card. Add to this bizarre mix an obsession with Ancient Rome, and you’ve got yourself a cultural femboy craze on the rise.


If it sounds crazy, that’s because it is!


But crazy or not, femboys have clearly made a cultural impact this year, and not just because of the Charlie Kirk headlines. In a moment when trans people are more visible than ever in a culture that both fears and hates us, it makes perfect sense that some of that fear and hatred would convert into lust and fascination for people who express a playful nontraditional gender identity.


“We all see those memes on Instagram reels and tiktok about “cracking femboys” and dudes arguing why it’s not gay,” one Redditor recently wrote. “A lot of straight dudes get into arguments about why it’s not gay to like femboys but I keep wondering why they won’t just say ‘who cares.'”


Whether or not it’s gay isn’t the point—these people do care, deeply, about how they identify. For people who haven’t unpacked or examined their sexuality, there’s an exotic pull towards the unfamiliar, especially if it appears in a slightly more socially acceptable package. As we’ve seen this year with so many MAGA and MAGA-lite influencers, denial can be a way of life, and the closet can be so deep, you can end up spending your life in there if you’re not careful.

 
 
 
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