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The Charli XCX vs. John Summit Beef that Somehow Spiraled into a PrEP Stigma Debate


John Summit reacts to Charli xcx saying “the dance floor is dead.”


via: Queerty


Body image is a serious thing in this community, and unsurprisingly, sometimes what begins as a seemingly harmless callout can end up as a distressing sign of the times. If you’re in doubt, just take a look at what happened this week on Gay Twitter™.


Here’s how it started: Last week, DJ John Summit—known for his Pride parties and very queer theme nights—got in hot water after calling out Charli XCX for saying the “dance floor is dead.”


A controversial statement to be sure, but who would know better than Charli XCX, whose iconic album brat scored the blissful pre-Tr*mp summer we can’t help but feel pretty nostalgic for right about now.


Summit apparently took XCX’s comments to heart, and responded in kind. “Maybe ur pop music dance floor is dead,” he tweeted earlier this week, “but ours isn’t babe.”



But since Charli XCX is mother, the gays were not about to put up with this shade. In an instantly iconic tweet, one poster hit back calling Summit “tanktop gayface.”



But that was not the end of it! Summit doubled down on his comments by posting an IG video of himself toplessly bumping that during his set.



That’s one way to beat the tanktop gayface allegations!


But here’s where things get slightly icky. When one poster in a now-deleted post retweeted the video with the caption: “PrEP belly,” a fresh thread of discourse emerged, and it’s… complicated.




One poster helpfully pointed out that “PrEP belly” refers to a form of bloating that could occur as a side effect of the groundbreaking HIV prevention pill.




But here’s where we need to be quite clear: while the “PrEP belly” comment was meant to be a silly, fun dunk on Summit, there’s potentially a darker side to the discourse. As legendary poster Griffin Maxwell Brooks explained in a TikTok responding to the whole deal, there’s a thin line between silly, fun shade-throwing and harmful stigma.



Noting that, yes, Brooks is aware of the possibility for the light bloating potential that might happen as a result of any medication, “I do think we have to be really careful creating stigma around medication as important as PrEP.”


Amen to that! In the Ozempic era, there’s already so much body shaming happening in the community, and we definitely don’t need a reason to create more… especially if it would potentially deter people from taking PrEP.


“If the Republican party was able to convince half the country that vaccines cause autism when they don’t,” Brooks says, nodding to RFK Jr’s completely incorrect and irresponsible anti-vax conspiracy theory, “something as simple as ‘mm PrEP makes you a little bit bloated and therefore like, kind of chopped… could end up dissuading some insecure or uninformed little gay boy in a red state where sex-ed is nonexistent…from taking HIV prevention medication.”


Brooks makes a very serious and salient point. Currently, young queer kids in red states have been increasingly cut off from health education and information that might help them engage in safer sex, so we don’t want to add fuel to the fire by implying that it’s better to have a completely flat stomach than deal with a little bit of bloating while taking a preventative medication.


It’s not just the “PrEP belly” comment. Brooks also brings up people cringing at influencers and celebrities doing Mister ads as part of the problem. These things might seem small and not that important, but because we live in a moment when healthcare is actively distrusted and there’s so much misinformation going around, we do need to think about our language around PrEP specifically.



It’s not only Brooks that feels this way. Despite PrEP’s proven, groundbreaking track record of curbing HIV and other STI exposures among queer men, there’s still significant stigma attached to the medication that directly impacts communities of color.



To make matters even worse, last year, the Tr*mp administration’s attack on the PEPFAR program, which offers subsidized PrEP to those in need, along with statewide cuts to subsidized HIV prevention and care, threaten the community even more.


im proud of my prEp belly


— ethan (@lil_eath) April 21, 2026


So, yes, it is that serious. It’s sad that we have to say it, but girl, words mean things, and even a joke can potentially end up turning into somebody’s reason not to stay safe in this cursed and tortured timeline.

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